Aug 2009 Writing Newsletter

Re-story Life and Work

 

Stop Press: new CD out:  More Stories: Stories from Africa and the Great Elsewhere Vol 2 

Some fifty plus stories to entertain, tease , stimulate creativity, prompt discussion… … R100 plus postage… a birthday gift?

Dear writer, storyteller, reader, traveller, lover of words, images, silences…

I am the alpha and the omega the beginning and the end.

This month I wish to meditate on the alphabet and the spaces in-between – “in the beginning was the word.” Before that? In the beginning was the letter? The signs scratched in the sand, on papyrus, on a clay tablet. Aspirants that ride on the breath. Consonants that slip between teeth. The tango of lips and tongue across the ballroom beneath the dome of the palate palace, the sibilant snake hiss…  I think of our alphabet ancestors, hieroglyph, alpha and omega …and of the question mark (inverted in Spanish at the start of a question) – as a 27th letter?

Recently people in workshops have been writing out the alphabet and then moving into a piece of writing about anything invoked. Here is part of Gerda Nicholson’s (new to writing) response:

The way she doodled the alphabet, contradicted all the rules we were given stars for… Would this crazy font make the telephone directory a happier book?  The flavours of these letters might have been like the old fashioned sweet-sour lumps from Aunti Habib. This alphabet she scribbled, was now her very own, sweet and sour … She rolled them into a ball, some were sharp – like the star that had fallen off her forehead – she picked them out, wanting sour; not sharp. The ball was smaller now and full of edible colours.

I shared one of Isaac Singer’s (1978 Nobel Prize for Literature) stories (one of the stories on the new CD):

A Rabbi prays eloquently in the synagogue. He prays for world peace, for the generations and for forgiveness. At the end of the day he asks God, “Was my prayer well received?” God responds, “Your prayer was well received.”

The rabbi persists,  Was it not the best prayer that reached your ears this day?” “Well actually no.” “No? Who prayed more eloquently than I?” “Kefi .”

    Kefi? He’s the janitor of the synagogue. What does he know? What did he say?”

And God answers, “Kefi stood up and spoke. ’You know I am a simple man and that I love you. In order that I do not offend you, I will recite the alphabet and you arrange the letters according to the words that please you.’”

Here is one of my poems from Drawing Water

Beach Light

 

back pressed again a dune,

a woman dangles her arms

on raised knees, head slumped.

a beached whale, who sees

no way to heave her weight

back into water.

 

she does not see

her silhouette shine

as I do, walking

the sea-edge sunset.

 

the sky halos her hair,

the arch of elbows,

the letter A of her legs,

the Z of her ending.

Golden, she hunches

in a womb of light.

Try writing out the alphabet, playing with the letters as in the sandtray… see what emerges?

Dorian’s late July/Aug  Storyshops/ Writeshops

If you want any of these in your area speak speak. There may be a White River possibility.

 

I. Pringle Bay (Cape South Coast)

Living the Questions Now. An Evening of Story-telling and Poetry R50(R80 a couple)

Sat 25 July (19.00 -) a soup, bread, cheese fire and wine evening

 

 

 

 

Live the questions now. Perhaps then you will gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer   (Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet))

 

What are the great questions of our lives? We mediate on, consider and explore these questions though poetry and story telling.

Contact Evette Weyers   emoyeni @mhws.co.za    028 273 8483

 

2.  Pietermaritzburg

Nasrudin, Oom Scalk and the Rabbi: The Joy of Stories   R80

Thurs 30 July 17.30 -21.00

 

Why stories?  Because stories are origins and origins are places that we walk out from. Because stories have many feet and travel several roads at once...  because the story conjures the invisible. (Deena Metzger)

 

Stories start a conversation with ourselves and with our community. The evening’s  focus is on the joy of  stories from different traditions..  Listening to them,.. playing with them… laying our story down beside them,.  an interactive evening… find the story-teller within.

contact Ronel Wood ronel@ovation.co.za   033 342 2338

 

3. Ixopo   Zen Pen: Writing and Meditation

31 July - 2 Aug – at Buddhist Retreat Centre. brcixopo@futurenet.co.za   039 834 1863

www.brcixopo.co.za

 

“Looking at your image in a clear stream, you answer the question by your very presence.” In this workshop we explore the connection between writing and meditation. We write and meditate on the many changes and transformations we experience as we journey along the river of our lives. We consider how creativity steadies the boat and how writing helps us dip the oars into dark water so we may navigate the river safely.

 

4. East London

Rekindling the Fire An Evening to revive our Creativity, Imagination and Love of Stories   R150

Thurs 6 Aug 2009 Time: 18.30 - 21.00

 

I know that there is room in me
for a second huge and timeless life (Rilke)

 

During this interactive evening we enter the world of story to recover our creativity, zest, energy and passion. We allow the imagination to lead our search for a myth to sustain and transform us. We consider how attention to life stories and fiction, so rich in image, symbol and rhythm, can release us from traps create a more abundant life.

 

therapists, artists, spiritual seekers, coaches, teachers magicians, tricksters, ecologists  gardeners, come and raise your story  IQ.

Venue: in East London:  to be arranged.

 

Contact:  Tony Schnell  084 400 1317 eyethu1@telkomsa.net

 

5. Johannesburg

A Story that could be True:  Living a Larger Life  R220

Sun 16 Aug   14.00-18.00 

Who are you really wanderer?

And the answer you have to give

No matter how dark and cold

The world is around you is:

Maybe I’m King 

(A story that could be true - William Stafford)

 

Jung said we walk in shoes too small. He also spoke of dreams as the royal road to the unconscious. This workshop explores how we can enlarge our lives through writing and the relationships it evokes. We also consider how the fictions we live by can lead to greater abundance and nobility of spirit … as king/queen.

Venue: TBA

 

6. Durbanville  Cape

 

 

 

Journaling Workshop

Sun  23 Aug   10.00 - 16.00    R450  

 

Make your life a work of art

[Embrace Your Past, Create Your future, Live Life Now through Narrative Play

with  Dorian Haarhoff and Pauline van Zyl

 

Is there not a certain satisfaction  that natural limits are set to the life of the individual,

so that at its conclusion it may appear as a work of art? (Albert Einstein) 

Pauline van Zyl will guide you to go within and find the true authentic you, while Dorian will guide you through your imagination and creativity to find the words to tell your story. Pauline who joins me as co-facilitator, studied the arts of Reiki, Crystals, Metaphysical Science, Metaphysical Life Coaching, AD/HD Life Coaching through VEMISA, Living ADDventure. Passionate about life and grateful for this adventure, this journey.

Venue: contact Pauline Bookings: Pauline 072 220 6204, paulinem1@vodamail.co.za

7. Somerset West

Jail Break: How Stories bend the Mental Prison Bars    R390

Sun 30 Aug 10.00- 16.00

 

In 1794a small boy underwent surgery for a tumour (No antibiotics or anaesthetics then).  To distract his attention he was told a tale so intriguing that he later avowed he had felt no discomfort. The boy was Jacob Grimm.

 

The workshop offers  a radical approach to story telling/story listening and its possibilities for freeing us from beliefs, limitations and paradigms that no longer serve. Stories alter our mind body processing. They place us in the flow zone. Jung said we walk in shoes too small. Come and try on a larger size of mountain boot.

Venue :TBA

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ongoing activities (some repeat info)

 

Development Work

 

Last year the Storywell team I co-ordinate completed a UNICEF project training caregivers who look after vulnerable children in story telling and listening.  Written this up as a resource book (see site for details)

 

Writer in Residence

 

In late July I will enjoy another 3 day spell at Hilton College as “Writer in Residence” with students and some staff.

 

Corporate Work

 

Story work in organisational development is growing. Stories shape our world of work – leadership, training, mergers, marketing, product development, client services, strategic planning. Stories influence organisations (the larger body) as much as they do individuals (the smaller body). Unconscious stories can sabotage an organisation. Stories made conscious can save it. When employees’ stories are heard and received, they feel valued as an asset and are more present at work. They feel a sense of belonging and begin to use their initiative.

 

 

Speaking Engagements

 

Be still when you have nothing to say but when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot."( D. H. Lawrence)  I’m building up this aspect of my work.

 

Anywhere: Autumnal Stories at Home

 

This season I will be a storying for groups of friends…an evening, wine, cheese, breads and tales for the telling. Any rhyme or reason – birthdays,  TV fatigue, the art of conversation, sommer. Gather a group for Winter. This and next month sixtieth birthdays.

 

Mentoring 

 

Walk with me in words. You put on one shoe, I wear the other. Memoirs, mindfulness adventures, work in the word… genres tumbling out of folk on the one-on-one path. Such a richness of story here.

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Email Courses:  Writer’s/ Poet’s Voice Course – one-on–one tuition

 

Some folks respond to structure, assignments… if so, ask and it shall be negotiated. Here is one possibility: Do you love reading and writing? This one-on-one apprenticeship aims to take you further up the writing mountain and offer you a deeper engagement with your craft. This course is structured in the nature of an ongoing conversation with a few chosen writers or poets, (ancestral or alive) with me and with yourself. I encourage you to keep a journal to record your observations and reflections.

 

CD/ Books

 

 

The Halo and the Noose, the Power of story-telling and story listening in Business Life R180

 

Want to source a 100 plus stories? co-written with Graham Williams (Graysonian Press). We run corporate story workshops based on our book. Bruce Copley leading aaha educator, sound journey man writes:

 

The stories are delightful. I love the skilful way in which you explain and illustrate the relevance and connection of stories to every sphere of our short earth walk. Congratulations for a fine and profound gift that will I have no doubt,  weave its magic. I regard as one of the most delightful and totally captivating reads of my life. (bruce@aahalearning.com)

 

For orders:  from the authors or Graysonian Press  Inspirational books that change the world www.graysonian.com  +27 11 6462956 or 0836101113

Friends at Work and Play

Cape Somerset West: Aneta Shaw:  Creative relaxation in a small group context

Mon eves at 5pm or  7pm, please indicate preference

 

Enhance personal growth and honour your soul through creative  techniques. Reconnect with your imaginative side and enrich your life. 

Aneta is a clinical psychologist and hypnotherapist, has integrated years of experience as a therapist and life in other countries with ancient ways of being in this world. 

 

Aneta  082 686 8118 or 021 8555415    aneta.shaw@vodamail.co.za

 

Cape Hout Bay:  Kiki Theo

 

Holistic wealth creation courses with the author of Money Alchemy & Money Well (Penguin)  Kiki offers weekend intensives between July and Oct, as well as monthly Wealth-Being mornings.  Kiki writes “ I work with money as metaphor for transformation and use writing, drawing, claywork, ceremony, ritual, symbol and my own energetic transmutations to facilitate a shift in the area of wealth.”

 

Kiki Theo ktheo@icon.co.za   www.moneyalchemy.com 

 

 

 

Elma Pollard

You might like to send a contribution to the Green Arts page?

Elma elma@thegreentimes.co.za   084 868 2908 for orders, inspiration, contributions, conversations, support. 

Somerset West : Muriel Connell

Life journeys  R50

 

8 Aug  Getting back to your Dream - Exploring your Creativity -10am – 12 noon

The purpose of this Conversation is to open you up to new possibilities for

your life and to seek the way forward in a creative and meaningful way.

Muriel Connell   082 871 0993   021 853 4146 lifejouneys@mweb.co.za         

 

Gauteng ( Maggie Fikkert)

 

 Maggie, author of Jade and the Serpent’s Circle,  a teenage novel on reverse evolution (that I mentored) has just launched a writers’ forum. Innovative… energetic…

 

“IZIZA encourages everybody with an aptitude for writing with an emphasis on starting something and following it through. We have a For Kids By Kids range that encourages children to support each other in their writing quest. IZIZA also supports adult authors on their writing journey to publish their books. Visit our writing forum for children For Kids By Kids and for adult writers. “

 

 Maggie   maggief@iziza.co.za     +27 83 6 222 222   fax 086 658 3336   www.iziza.co.za

 

Writer-sites and News  (see site news on my web. see new web address dorianhaarhoff.com The longer old one is linked to it.

 

May your writing grow from these 26 signs and seeds.

 

Dorian

PS  Thank you to all those who pass on this letter.

 

Dr Dorian Haarhoff
021 855 3937 / 082 873 6802/ fax 086 511 4751
http://dorianhaarhoffwriter.homestead.com and dorianhaarhoff.com
16 Poinsettia Rd, Heldervue Somerset West  7130